Commentary: We can all learn from civil discourse
Now we have reached that point in the article where I need to apologize to anyone who bore witness to what happened next. To the witnesses of this shouting match I want to say a true and heartfelt apology; that sort of stuff is uncomfortable to watch and look at, and for that I am truly sorry. I should have just walked away.
But I couldn't. I couldn't because I was put in a position where someone who doesn't know me said something that couldn't have been further from the truth. This gentleman accused me of not supporting our veterans! I have never put on a uniform, this is true. What is also true is that I hold our veterans in the highest regard, I treat them with reverence and do what I can to fight for what they need. So, to stand and accuse me of talking badly about the veterans when you couldn't find one shred of evidence stating that I did, to accuse me of speaking badly and not supporting the U.S. vet Well, that was more than I could handle.
This gentleman served in our Armed Forces; even in the heat of this disagreement I thanked him for his service because at the end of the day I still hold him to a higher regard than he clearly holds me. But he was hanging onto my lack of support of the current administration and said that I was the problem. I suggested that I was supporting the current administration with the same level of respect that he most likely showed the previous administration.
A lot of things were batted around during this shouting match, so I don't want to get caught up in all the detail of it. I would like to add that I truly believe that this administration has opened the door for this style of behavior. It's almost as though they have permission to punch and yell as if some rich man has offered to pay the lawyers' fees.
Even though this happened, I would like to sit down with this gentleman over a cup of coffee and discuss our differences. It's called civil discourse. Since this gentleman was older than I am I'm sure he was raised with the same understanding of how you present yourself in public. We both failed at that yesterday. So I extend to you, sir, an invitation to sit down and discuss with me your point of view, and I will share my point of view. I'm sure we won't agree on anything, but I'm also sure that we'll be able to learn something. I'm also sure that we will agree on more than you think. Or we can simply walk away from one another and (quietly this time) ask, what the hell is up with that?
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